A big part of healing is to examine how you got to where you are.  What are your fears?  What holds you back?  How can you find peace and heal?  How can you open your mind to new ways of thinking and be free to create, to be, to do?  The journey into creating a nurturing home and reshaping a family begins with you freeing yourself and allowing yourself to be the you that you were meant to be and setting an example for your children so that they can be who they were meant to be.