Relationships don’t work when one person feels like they can’t be who they are around their partner. Sometimes when you are young, you choose someone that is very different from you. You may take up all of their interests and lose your own. As you get older, this is hard to continue. You may start to realize that you really don’t like all of your partner’s activities and he/she surely doesn’t like yours. True love is found when both people are free to be themselves and enjoy the things that make them happy, healthy and whole.