This song sums up very well how you can get stuck.  It is rarely what you want to do.  When you go through a traumatic experience sometimes it seems there is no way to move forward.  Then sometimes you just wait.  Waiting and waiting for some event that you are not even sure of what it is.  It is not living when you put your life on hold.  The good news is that you don’t have to put your life on hold.  Whatever it is that holds you back, there are many of us out here who would like to help you break free and move forward.  You can enjoy life again.  Ask me how.