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We live in an age where state authorities have taken it upon themselves to mandate relationships. As crazy as it sounds, that is what they do. We also have the court system creating syndromes where none exist. This is done so that people who are incapable of developing and maintaining relationships on their own, can force others to be in relationship with them. We have judges who want to play along in this little game of mandating relationships, and lawyers who allow it to happen because they can earn a lot of money doing so.
Read the latest, in a string of state control over children, from West Bloomfield, Michigan:
This is all such a farce for several reasons! First off, I contend that only an abusive parent would force their children to have a relationship with them. As difficult as it is, if the other parent is lying about you, but you are able to spend time with your children, the children will know how you treat them when they are with you. Children know. Children are not stupid. Children come to know the truth, as they experience it, not by what is written, not by what is told to them, but by their life experience of the time they spend with you.
Why this judge is participating in a farce:
1. The state’s only interest in the parent-child relationship is due to the state ensuring “the Best Interest of the Child”. Removing children from the safety of their home and both parents is not in their best interest, and will harm them in a FAR greater way than if they are not spending time with one parent. It may be harmful if they are being denied time with a parent, but we all know that children find a way to do what they want to do, especially as they get older.
2. If this judge truly believes that PAS is the problem here, then she would hold the mother accountable and not the children. Stop punishing the victims!
3. A reasonable parent would realize that court “forced” interaction with anyone will not deepen anyone’s affection for you. Maybe the father should ask for court ordered therapy sessions where they may get to the bottom of what is happening and work on their relationship. This would afford an opportunity to repair a broken relationship, and not demand “parental rights”.
I realize that there is much more to ANY court story than meets the eye. I will try and research this case to find out more information, but until then, on the surface, it is pretty pathetic. Both parents and the professionals on this case are failing the children and I hope, for the children’s sake, that someone will do the right thing!
A Call to Action Update: April 2015 – Families Impacted by Guardian ad Litem Failures, Board Revising Its Complaint Procedure
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The need for reform in family court and in the Guardian ad Litem (GAL) program is urgent. Fit, loving parents are losing custody of their children due to systemic failures and abuses of power, and children are being placed in the custody of dangerous or unfit parent. The impact is severe, devastating families and often leaving lifelong scars on children.
The stories of these families are heartbreaking…. here are some stories we have heard:
“Since my abusive ex won custody, I have not been allowed to see my child.”
“I was forced to send my child to visit the abuser, they screamed and cried and did not want to leave.”
“I was not even allowed to give my child an Easter basket.”
“I was punished for reporting concerns of abuse, and lost custody (other parents are placed into supervised visitation while the abusive parent…
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What a sweet love story. This is what it means when we say love conquers all. This is what it means to walk in victory.
Melissa Dohme was stabbed 32 times by a former boyfriend 3 years ago. She didn’t go on to become a perpetual victim, to wallow in her perceived oppression. She didn’t dedicate her life to bemoaning the nature of men, although she was certainly more than entitled to. Instead she went on to graduate from college and to go to work for Hands Across the Bay to help domestic violence victims.
A few months after the attack, she met up with one of the first responders who saved her life and although she was hesitant, they started dating a few years ago and fell in love.
He proposed to her Monday, just as she was about to toss out the first pitch for the Tampa Bay…
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There are numerous articles and studies out right now that speak to the decline of marriage in the Western world, something that has now fallen below 50%. Some 70% of young men are not getting married.
Marriage is not really on the decline in America, it is actually being picked to death and deliberately dismantled.
Many feminists have been working towards the elimination of marriage for decades, thought to be a cornerstone of patriarchy and once eliminated will pave the way towards more equality. Many Men’s Rights advocates speak to the horrors of marriage, unfair divorce laws, economics, our legal system. There are MGTOW’s and men boycotting marriage. The LGBT lobby desires marriage rights for all and a complete redefinition of the entire concept of marriage. Our government has gotten in on the action too, and created numerous stumbling blocks to marriage, welfare policies, no default divorce, tax penalties, economic…
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A biblical lesson on Judges…
Very touching. Teach kids love. Don’t put the battle before your kids.
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Very important questions.